Five Minute Friday: Loud

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Normally I have thoughts that scream in my head.  Thoughts that beg to emerge onto a computer screen through the tips of my trained fingers.  But with each passing day that I don’t write, the thoughts become quieter.  They hibernate. 

I should make a new list . . . a list of all the posts that I want to write, I need to write, I have to write.

But I don’t. 

I focus on the book.  Yet, this book is frozen in the computer that is blank . . . unresponsive . . . and quiet

A quiet computer means no squawking bird that alerts me to a mistyped word as Ezra learns his keys.  My math facts remain rusty as Asher’s Teaching Textbooks is learned silently at a table. 

A broken computer puts a recess on my loud thoughts.  Website building keeps me from entering in . . . creating . . . for fear I will mess up my blog designer’s work. 

But loudly have we been cleaning the house . . . motivated to action . . . delighting in how proud we feel in our accomplishments.  Joyously we celebrate at watered flower beds, swept porches, folded laundry, vacuumed rugs, swept floors, and even . . . dusted furniture. 

The sources of loudness has shifted.

And I think it is for the better.

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Five Minute Friday: Grit

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My teeth clench.  My hand opens and closes, changing from rose to hard white.  Head feeling as if it would burst into flames.  My feet take me out of the room.  It is better that way. 

I write a letter offering my resignation.  But by the time the Engineer has returned home, it has silently retracted itself as the children and I have sprouted flour on our noses and are dangling spoons of cookie dough from our fingers. 

It seems like daily I fight the urge to wash my hands, change my clothes and walk out the door.  Leave everything behind and disappearing. 

But the residual effects on these precious gifts is what concerns me the most.  Though they alone have the ability to make me madder than a disturbed hornet nest, quite honestly I never truly want to hurt them.

I may think it.  But the grief at such thoughts and sinful tongue lashings nearly suffocate me as I beg for forgiveness from Abba. 

God, I cry.  What were you thinking?  I wasn’t supposed to have children!  Now you have blessed me with four?  And this is how I thank you?  Hurting this tender flock?  Forgive me.  I beg you to change me . . . change me from the inside out.  Quickly.  Overnight.  Please. 

I vow to wake up earlier the next day.  To dig into my Precept Upon Precept Study.  To resolve.  To follow through.  Fortitude. 

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Five Minute Friday: Delight

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Yesterday was a hard day.  I clung to the Flying Dutchman in desperation, looking for something to delight in. 

Perhaps the sparkle . . . the twinkle of love . . . of delight.

Kind thoughts were far and few between. 

A last ditch attempt was made.  Unbeknownst to me, my eldest had bribed his brother into cleaning up. 

The reward:  chocolate chip cookies.

I both sighed and delighted in this prospect.  Chocolate is almost like salve on a wound. 

But like arnica, the healing numbing effect only lasted so long.  After the torches had been extinguished and only the heart lights remained . . . my crew escaped from their barracks.

Too many words later the house stilled.  For a moment.  A lonely cry burst through the late hour.  A hungry baby girl, my Pleasant Word. 

I brought her into our bed.  She hadn't seen her dad.  Though he lay sleeping, it didn’t deter her. 

Da.  Da.  Da.  Oh.  Da. Da.  Glua-gula-gula, her delightful candy-like voice filled our exhausted bedroom.  Like music her voice wafted through the night, causing me to laugh heartily and wake the normally groggy Engineer from his deep slumber. 

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If some of my post doesn’t make since, then you might need to refer to yesterday’s post and my unfortunate adventure on the Flying Dutchman. 

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Five Minute Friday: Tender

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Tender is meat grilled to perfection.  Warm.  Juicy.  Full of rich, earthy flavor. 

Tender are muscles that have been a slave to Bob and Jillian for a week.  Faithfully moving through the pain to improve strength.  Bringing the body closer to being a fat burning machine.

Tender is the heart after a loss . . . a heart breaking surprise . . . disappointment . . . words that you weren’t meant to hear or read.

Tender is a little girl’s emotions as a toy is taken from her hand before it is placed in her mouth.  The first time she is told no – and she understands.

Tender is that heart as it begins to understand who Jesus is and what we have done to Him with our words, deeds, and actions.  Tender is the heart that allows itself to be transformed, renewed, restored. 

Tender is the one who works towards change, overcomes habits, seeks revolution within. 

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Vivid

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The kitchen sink is white.  I know not how old it is, its heritage, or how it came to have the a chip.  A black chip on a white surface. 

Yesterday the sink was scoured by hands that hold the beginning of my earliest memories.  She walks around my house, familiar.  Her handwriting with its big loops followed by ten stickers that my children eagerly anticipate. 

She busied herself.  Blooming in the present moment.  Engaged in birth, I floated oblivious.  Hand discovering God’s most recent thought come to earth.  She grappled my smallest stainless steel pot.  The one used for chai.  With it she would lovingly scoop out an overflowing pool.

As the water lowered, the sequence of new memories began. 

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Note:  This creative writing actually took a different turn than I anticipated.  Dare I tell you the details?  I think not.  I hope you can figure out the setting and the action taking place over two drastically different time periods.  I long to include more detail and to expand on this writing session, but I am opting to stick to the rules.  Five minutes of unedited creativity.

What was I going to write?  The Engineer and I lay chatting in bed last night at a terribly late hour that seems to lure good conversation out.  Memories.  I had been remarking how certain times, certain memories stand out to me in such vivid, poignant, and stark contrast from 10 years ago, while living in Colorado . . . compared to  something that happened two weeks ago.

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Awake

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There are some moments that it is easy to be present for.  Alert.  Awake.  Fully living in the moment. 

And then there are times it seems much more enjoyable to savor the moments of fog under a brown, crinkly, down comforter.

The boys flutter in, almost like Tinkerbell, darting here and there in the early morning darkness . . . peaking to see if I am awake.  Their uncontrolled morning voices can abruptly startle me from slumber. 

But these voices don’t always awaken me.

The Kindle lay beside my bed from a previous late night book. 

It is waiting.  Waiting for little hands to hold it up and watch that accidental purchase of the entire season one of Curious George.

Not minding, I refuse to wake up.  Instead I pull my snuggliest pajama clad son close and spoon him, lulled back to sleep by sounds of the man with the yellow hat.

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Five Minute Friday: Unexpected

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There are some things in this life -- my life -- that are surprises.  I didn’t think I would like them.  Relish in them.

Four children.

Seeing the dog, body tension filled, ready to unleash her energy in one bound upon the innocent little birds in our backyard.  Watching a flutter of activity, feathers flying as yet . . . once again, Ruth was too slow.

Digging my feet into sofa cushions.

Relishing, being deliriously happy, even encouraging a community of mothers to endure the decree . . . give birth naturally.  Without intervention.  Without dulling the senses.  Experiencing all aspects of birth.

There was a moment . . . it lasted maybe 32 seconds where I told the Engineer that I hated him.  In that moment I realized that I was going to give birth to my Pleasant Word alone . . . without my beloved midwife.

Delighting in seeing a figure clad in black . . . and the token streak of purple barreling down a step incline, enlisting gravity to help him descend the mighty mountains clad in white snow.  And I trailing behind . . . doing my best to show him that I . . . I am a brave wife . . . courageous enough to partner with him in feeding three testosterone rich saplings. 

Enjoying Indian food.  So much so that when the call to move there descended into our marriage . . . I agreed.  Changed.  Never to same woman again.

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How I want to linger here . . . so many unexpected moments that make for rich snapshots in my history.

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Remember

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The room was always dark, save for the flickering TV screen.  I laid stretched out on the couch. 

Pretending to be barely able to move.

Hoping that when my mom arrived from a visit to the pharmacy that she would remember me.  How could she forget?  She was getting yet another prescription . . . for me. 

But . . . would she remember a coloring book perchance?  Or an orange push-up pop (back in the days when I was just a kid . . . not concerned about it if was organic).

I needn't have worried.  My mom always remembered.

One time . . . when I had the worst case of chicken pox she disguised my beloved stuffed animal, named with a very original name – Dog – as a mangy mutt riddled with the same complications.  Dog wasn’t left with scars, though.

Campbell's chicken noodle soup, grilled cheese, toast with butter accompanied by Inspector Gadget, Mr. Ed, Wonder Woman, Oprah, Casper, Scooby Doo, Fat Albert, Rocky and Bullwinkle. 

Passing the time.  My substitute teacher for the last month of kindergarten.

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P.S.  I gandered over to Hulu to see if they had any of my old cartoons available for view.  Low and behold  . . . they do.

The boys are watching Inspector Gadget.  I was informed by Gabe, before the show even started, that this was his favorite one.

And Asher . . . made me howl.  “Mom, you didn’t watch this when you were a kid.  This is in color.  Your shows were in black and white.”

For those of you who don’t know me . . . I am NOT that old.

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Catch

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My words are formed with a little help.  Influenced by what I have read. 

When I think of the word “catch,” vivid colors coming together to form toddlers playing ball in a backyard.  Giggling.  Throwing but lacking both precision and coordination. 

My mind wanders to seeing the water droplets of someone sneezing and parts of them being flung into the air.  (I know, rather gross.)  And that in itself is amazing . . . if you think about it.  God was crafty to create a sneeze.

I also think of germs on a door handle.  We unwittingly pick them up as we walk through a door into an opportunity, a newly awoken baby, the chiropractor, the dollar store.

Catch.  I hope that the good parts of my faith, the parts that I am obedient in, the parts that I spread joy with . . . those parts that they would end up being flung out into the atmosphere of my home so that my children would catch Jesus.

STOP.

That wasn’t nearly long enough.  I just got started. 

Five Minute Friday: Growing

Growing.  While I hope to be shrinking, I find that internally I am expanding . . . growing.  Growing in what it means to be a mature adult and handle my feelings in a non-volcanic way, void of an eruption.

Growing.  Being ok with bugs taking up residence in my refrigerator.

Growing.  Being bolder with my faith and being able to give a reason for the hope which I have and profess.

Growing.  Being quicker to ask for forgiveness and admit when I have been in the wrong.  (However if I haven’t apologized to you, maybe I don’t know I offended you.)

Growing.  In a knowledge of essential oil.

Growing.  Abounding in  a new love for my children that can laugh at once annoying things (thank you amino supplements).

Growing.  Strength, determination, grit to slay the beast of gluttony and put a noose around my lazy thyroid or pituitary gland to guide it into submission; rather, wake them up.

Growing.  Seeing my absolute necessity to be in the Word before my children wake up.

Growing.  Just when I thought I couldn’t adore the Engineer any more . . . my heart expands even more because of some humorous antic he has performed.

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Five Minute Friday: Joy

Joy conjures up a lot of images to me.

Joy is my mom’s name.  Growing up, I don’t remember a time when my mom didn’t have some form of joy.  She always seemed happy, joyful, ready to extend a hug, affirm a good try, or offer a fellowship drink to me.  Joy.  She had joy in being a mom. 

Joy is the middle name of one of my college best friends.  I have always LOVED saying her full name, Monica Joy.  Something is just fun about that name.  What I heart about Monica is that all through college she worked hard at having joy . . . that girl knew how to study her Bible.  She enJOYED God’s word. 

Joy. 

A powerful choice.  A word that paints a picture.  Joy is so full of emotion. 

Joy is that feeling of meeting your child for the first time and being ever so thankful you aren’t in labor anymore.  That earth-tearing downward force finally stopped.

Joy.  The kiss that finalizes a marriage. 

Joy.  The moment I see the photoshopped image of my husband’s car on Glympse and see that he has pulled into our neighborhood.  Instantly once still children that stood before the computer, become jumping beans as they scatter out the garage door to meet their daddy.

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I can’t stop.  Because joy . . . once you begin to dwell on it – it has a powerful way of transforming your mind.  Of playing a silent movie in your cranium of all the Hallmark moments that have occurred in your life.

It is pleasant to my soul.  A good way to start my morning.  A powerful reflection to add purpose.

Because joy . . . it can’t be lived in the past.  It has to be an intentional part of our present.  Joy is a choice. 

For other powerful vivid writings on the subject of JOY, please visit the Gypsy Mama for other reflections.  A powerful day.

They shall eagerly utter the memory of Your abundant goodness

And will shout joyfully of Your righteousness. (Psalm 145:7)

Five Minute Friday: Older

Older. 

I have come to realize this year that we are becoming the “older” people at church.

The ones with kids that run all over the church, while  younger parents clutch their children close.

The parents who are in activities.  Rather, their kids are in activities.

I’m older.

When someone in their twenties sees me at worship, they don’t think of me as a spring chicken.  Instead, they think of me as someone to ask a parenting question of because I have been there and done that.

I am not of the geriatric generation.

But the busy-with-one-gray-hair-generation.

The minivan mom.

The generation who grew up watching Oprah for their afterschool special.  The one who had a drawer-full of Wonder-Roo’s. 

I am the soccer mom. 

The mom with smiles creases at the edge of her eyes that fans out, adding character to my haggard look. 

But though I am older, my mind still thinks like I am still in high school. 

My thoughts still frisky with love for my husband.  Mischievous enough to still desire to pull pranks. 

STOP.

I love doing this.  Writing under pressure.

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Writing Prompt: New

New.

Giddy with excitement as I re-enter my former life.  Writing.  Dreaming.  Creating.

I once thought that my life would be filled with words.  Words needing a dictionary.  People needing a dictionary around me.

Because heady words mean a smart person.  Right?

But instead I find that my grammar is rather simplified.  I teach beginning English.

New.

New is taking beginning English and with it painting a vision for my sons.  Turn your blanket into a tent.  Take a silk and become a superhero. 

What are you baking?  French silk pie?  Apple crisp?  Oh, a three egg cheese omelet.  Your mommy is raising you healthy.

New.

A new book.  The one I want to right with my simple words.  A book about our new dog.  To do this I must write a new email to a new friend.

And this might lead to a new adventure for our family’s big new adventure.

I simply can’t wait.

New is fun.  New is new.  Like a blank page.  Like an unopened fresh book.

An Amazon package sitting on my doorstep.

The first time I wrote for 5 minutes without a plan.  That was new to me.

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If you are wondering what just happened on my blog post – it’s called 5 Minute Friday. 

I was given a writing prompt: New. 

And 5 minutes to write about ANYTHING that came to mind in that 5-minutes.

Forgetting about who would read this and how my grammar found itself to the page.  Simple writing. 

Because it’s good for you.  And it’s rather healing to my brain as writing/literature was my college major.

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